There are 8 reasons why you may never realize that your child is being bullied.

Understanding Why Kids Don’t Tell About Bullying

Bullying is a common issue among complex kids, and it’s important for parents to be aware of the signs and take action. However, many children who are being bullied may not speak up about their experiences. In this three-part series, renowned parent author and educator Barbara Coloroso explores why kids don’t tell, signs that bullying may be happening, and what parents can do to help.

The Common Thread Among Bullied Kids

Children who are bullied often share one common trait: they are targeted for being different in some way. Kids with ADHD are particularly vulnerable to bullying, as they may be mocked or provoked for their interests or behavior. This cruel behavior can cause immense pain and suffering for the targeted child, while providing entertainment for the bullies and bystanders.

Why Your Child May Not Tell You About Bullying

It can be heartbreaking for parents to suspect that their child is being bullied, but many kids may not feel comfortable speaking up about their experiences. There are several reasons why a child may not tell their parents about bullying, including shame, fear of retaliation, a belief that no one can help them, or a perception that bullying is a necessary part of growing up. Additionally, some children may fear that adults will take the bully’s side or not believe them.

Debunking Myths and Fears

If you suspect that your child is being bullied, it’s important to have open and honest conversations with them. Start by debunking some of the myths and fears surrounding bullying, and let your child know that you are there to support them. By creating a safe and supportive environment, you can help your child feel more comfortable sharing their experiences and taking steps to address the issue.